The basis of optimism is that it takes no account of the current, but it is a source of inspiration, of vitality and hope where others have resigned; it enables a man to hold his head high, to claim the future for himself and not to abandon it to his enemy.
Surround yourself with All the dreamers and the doers, the believers and Believers, but most of all, surround yourself with Individuals who View the greatness within you, even Once You don't see it yourself
All blame is a waste of time. No matter how much fault you find with another, and regardless of how much you really blame him, it won't change you. The only thing blame does is to keep the focus off you when you're searching for external reasons to explain your unhappiness or fruion. You may succeed in making another feel guilty about something by blaming him, but you won't succeed in changing whatever it is about you that's making you miserable.
I understand that in life there'll be sickness, jealousy, disappointments, heartache - it's a given. What is not a specified is how that you choose to get through it all. When you look hard enough, you could always find the bright side.